Phase: |
Learning
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Work
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Consequence
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Privileges
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Babies |
To be potty trained
To not suck fingers/thumb To sit at the table without making a mess Core Values To accept a no answer To say ok or can we talk? To use words, to not throw a fit, kick or scream To be reverent during prayers |
run errands around house for mom
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removed from room
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Unconditional Love
Listen to a story Play near Mom 7:00 bedtime Fable and back rub at bedtime |
Littles |
Core Values
Personal chores Understand boundaries, touching |
Work alongside Mom
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stand in corner or sit on bed
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Unconditional love
Listen to a story Bedding caddy for hygiene Play near Mom Monthly interview 7:30 bedtime fable and back rub at bedtime |
Kiddos |
Love of Learning Phase
family chores polite manners learns for 3+ hours each day FS: honesty & integrity FS: language FS: gratitude FS: entertaiinment and media tidy after oneself obey commands quickly and calmly home lessons: RRR gospel principles FS: repentance, agency and accountability, sabbath day observance FS: physical and emptional health boundaries |
work alongside mom
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extra chore during freetime
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family ring
check out books at the library Play near Mom 7:30 bedtime Read or told a story Oils on feet at bedtime EOW interview with Mom/Dad baptism at age 8 cub scouts/activity days |
Big Kiddos |
Practice Scholar
Scholar Phase Studying for 7+ hours daily FS: education etiquette self mastery: no treat challenge stewardship FS: finances FS: friends FS: music and dancing FS: tithes and offerings FS: agency and accountability |
work away from Mom
make dinner once a week (using a budget) Once in Scholar Phase, a real responsibility (laundry, bills, meals, dishes, bathrooms, yardwork, etc) |
extra chore at night
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Play away from Mom
outside lessons babysit at home 8:00 bedtime online lessons computer privileges: email Weekly activity with Mom/Dad Weekly interview with Mom/Dad getting things done system personal book collection journal temple |
Young Adults |
FS: social dating
FS: service FS:Sexual Purity FS: work and self reliance watch kids wherever they are discipline kids life missions: create beauty |
start building their own business (babysitting, car washes, mowing lawns, vinyl, etc)
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major maintenance.
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driving
9:00 bedtime Wind down with Mom/Dad in master room babysit away from home maintain own schedule |